Today I had a short conversation with someone that kinda left me a little close to the edge.
I was on the phone talking to someone about a friend's situation when this person was like "See That's why I don't want no husband...You have one and they don't do nothing. I can do bad by myself..."
Being the married woman that I am (that's funny) I had to say something.. I simply stated that yes you can do bad by yourself, and it seems that you've been doing a good job at it, but not all husbands are the same".. After receiving a look that should've killed me, she replied "Well, all the men I know ain't worth their drawers..."
I am saddened by this statement. This person knows my husband. She knows my friend's husbands...and for her to say that all of the men she knows ain't worth their drawers is upsetting...
I mean true she's not in the best situation right now. She's been screwed, let down and trodden over by the best of them. Her expectations of herself are lackluster and therefore she expects very little or nothing from others... She's miserable and I honestly believe that she enjoys misery.
For the past few days she's had this pissy attitude towards me and Kyle so I decided to give her a ring and see how/if I offended her. BIG MISTAKE!!! She decided to throw every frigging accomplishment that I've ever made in my face - as if I am the reason for her life being what it is. "Oh you're married, so you don't understand anyway" or "You own a home, so you wouldn't care anyway" It's such BULLSHIT!!!
Whatever...
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